and i noe though it's my fault, i cant help to rebutt..i certainly dun meet up to fill up my time..if u noe me well enough, u will definitely noe dat i'm willing to sacrifice my time for my frens...esp if u tell in advance of a certain event at a certain time, and i have nothing on on dat day initially, i will definitely turn up unless there's something more impt wif more priority that needs me to attend to (eg. handball stuff) or my dad dun allow me to go out (i noe dis sounds stupid but yes, if my dad dun allow me to go out, i wont go out..)...haiz.